Simon had his 2nd surgery, so outfit pics have been overshadowed by helping him get around. He’s healing nicely.
Thoughts on Style
In the meantime, I got into a discussion with a friend that I wanted to share. We were talking about personal style. She informed me that mine was somewhat boring because I tend to prefer cardigans to jackets and tend to prefer fit-and-flare dresses or fuller skirts to sheath or body-con dresses and pencil skirts. Her argument was that the latter were in style and were very flattering on “everyone”, so I should try them.
Here’s the thing. I have tried them. Gwynnie Bee has allowed me to try all sorts of things with no real risk. Most recently (literally yesterday) I received and tried on a shift dress. Then I put it in the bag and sent it back. Even with shapewear, the dress made me look like I was all hips and nothing else.
But more importantly, I WASN’T COMFORTABLE IN IT. I felt self-conscious. I have the same issue with pencil skirts, and in addition I don’t feel as though I can move comfortably.
I don’t care HOW in style something is or how chic everyone says a look is. If you don’t feel comfortable in it, you aren’t going to LOOK comfortable in it. And if you aren’t comfortable, you sure as heck aren’t going to feel sexy, attractive, powerful or smart.
For me, that means an A-line or wider skirt. Others may find they feel more pulled together in a pencil skirt, and that is their right. (Chastity over at Garner Style TOTALLY rocks those, and she’s curvier than I am!) I’ll keep rocking my fit-and-flares.
On to something more fun: SHOPPING!
Remember this cardigan/jacket that was $368? *happy dance* It went on sale for 40% off ($220.80), which is STILL expensive but a lot better. At that point I showed it to my husband who agreed that it was an AMAZING, wardrobe-making piece. After some negotiating about my spending money, I bought it and am spreading the cost out over a month to pay back our credit card. I CAN’T WAIT! This will be my perfect Arizona winter coat!
Another thing I’ve been focusing on this fall is particular colors. Specifically deep purples, plums, burgundies, wines, etc. I’m also making an effort to buy better items, but fewer. So I was surfing around navabi.us and found this cardigan. It arrived today and the colors are every bit as rich and beautiful as I wanted. Expect to see it very soon now that temps are dropping below 100. (This has the advantage of being a loose enough knit that I can wear it already…)
I used 2 different store credits I had this week. First I had a store credit at eshakti – a dress I ordered had proven to be too tight through the hips, and they are absolutely amazing about returns, so back it went. Instead, I bought this swing/trapeze dress and had them modify it with short sleeves. It’s an incredibly light weight gauze in a beautiful red. In general, I’ve been afraid of swing dresses, since many tend to look like a mu-mu on plus women, but this one has fixed pleating at the bust to keep it from belling out too much. It’s cool, crazy comfortable, and is about to become a hot weather staple. You’ll be seeing it soon!
The second store credit was with Modcloth, and this item hasn’t arrived yet. One of the dresses I ordered had the weirdest shoulders that just sat wrong, so the dress went back and I decided to try to fill in that charcoal to gap I’ve previously mentioned. I found this one and decided to give it a go. Fingers crossed that it will look as cute on me as it does in the picture. Per the comments, I sized up, so we shall see.
That’s all for now. I hope to get back to outfit pics soon, and I am still on the hunt for the PERFECT burgundy purse (with no luck in my price range).